Friday, November 9, 2007

Poetry that could save your life

Streemin

Im in the botom streme
Which means Im not brigth
dont like reading
cant hardly write

but all these divishns
arent reely fair
look at the cemtery
no streemin there

Roger McGough

Money

That money talks
I won’t deny.
I heard it once.
It said, “Goodbye”.

Richard Armour

And the Days are not Full Enough

And the days are not full enough
And the nights are not full enough
And life slips by like a field mouse
                    Not shaking the grass.

Ezra Pound

 

    Late Fragment
 
  And did you get what
you wanted from this life, even so?
I did.
And what did you want?
To call myself beloved, to feel myself
beloved on the earth.

Raymond Carver
 

The Ted Williams Villanelle
(for Ari Badaines)

Wendy Cope (1945-)

“Don’t let anybody mess with your swing.”
                     Ted Williams, baseball player


Watch the ball and do your thing.
This is the moment. Here’s your chance.
Don’t let anybody mess with your swing.

Its time to shine. You’re in the ring.
Step forward, adopt a winning stance,
Watch the ball and do your thing,

And while the ball is taking wing,
Run without a backward glance.
Don’t let anybody mess with your swing.

Don’t let envious bastards bring
You down. Ignore the sneers, the can’ts.
watch the ball and do your thing.

Sing out, if you want to sing.
Jump up, when you long to dance.
Don’t let anybody mess with your swing.

Enjoy your talents. Have your fling.
The seasons change. The years advance.
Watch the ball and do your thing,
And don’t let anybody mess with your swing.

As much as you can

Even if you cannot shape your life as you want it,
at least try this
as much as you can; do not debase it
in excessive contact with the world,
in the excessive movements and talk.

Do not debase it by taking it,
dragging it often and exposing it
to the daily folly
of relationships and associations,
until it becomes burdensome as an alien life.

Constantine P. Cavafy (1913) 

“LEISURE”
WH Davies

What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.

No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.

No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.

No time to turn at Beauty’s glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.

No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.

A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.

24th September 1945

The best sea: has yet to be crossed.
The best child: has yet to be born.
The best days: have yet to be lived;
And the best word that I wanted to say to you
is the word that I have not yet said.

Nasim Hikmet
 

To Keep Your Marriage Brimming
Ogden Nash (1902-1971)


To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you’re wrong admit it;
Whenever you’re right shut up.



 

Love
Roy Croft

I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am when I am with you.

I love you,
Not only for what you have made of yourself,
But for what you are making of me.

I love you for
the part of me that you bring out;
I love you for
putting your hand into my heaped-up heart
And passing over all the foolish, weak things
that you can’t help dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out into the light
All the beautiful belongings
that no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.

I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern, but a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.

I love you because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good,
And more than any fate
Could have done
To make me happy.

You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it by being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
being a friend means, after all.

A Red, Red Rose
Robert Burns (1759-1796)


O, my love’s like a red, red rose,
That’s newly sprung in June:
O my love’s like the melodie,
That’s sweetly play’d in tune.


As fair art thou, my bonnie lass,
So deep in love am I,
And I will love thee still, my dear,
Till a’ the seas gang dry.


Till a’ the seas gang dry, my Dear,
And the rocks melt wi’ the sun:
I will love thee still, my Dear,
While the sands o’ life shall run.


And fare thee weel, my only love,
And fare thee weel a while!
And I will come again, my love.
Tho’ it were ten thousand mile!


My True Love Hath My Heart
Sir Philip Sidney (1554-1586)


My true-love hath my heart, and I have his,
By just exchange one for another given:
I hold his dear, and mine he cannot miss,
There never was a better bargain driven:

My true-love hath my heart, and I have his,
My heart in me keeps him and me in one,
My heart in him his thoughts and senses guide:
He loves my heart, for once it was his own,
I cherish his because in me it bides:

My true-love hath my heart, and I have his.


O Tell Me The Truth About Love
W.H. Auden (1907-1973)


Some say love’s a little boy,
And some say it’s a bird,
Some say it makes the world go around,
Some say that’s absurd,
And when I asked the man next-door,
Who looked as if he knew,
His wife got very cross indeed,
And said it wouldn’t do.

Does it look like a pair of pyjamas,
Or the ham in a temperance hotel?
Does its odour remind one of llamas,
Or has it a comforting smell?
Is it prickly to touch as a hedge is,
Or soft as eiderdown fluff?
Is it sharp or quite smooth at the edges?
O tell me the truth about love.

Our history books refer to it
In cryptic little notes,
It’s quite a common topic on
The Transatlantic boats;
I’ve found the subject mentioned in
Accounts of suicides,
And even seen it scribbled on
The backs of railway guides.

Does it howl like a hungry Alsatian,
Or boom like a military band?
Could one give a first-rate imitation
On a saw or a Steinway Grand?
Is its singing at parties a riot?
Does it only like Classical stuff?
Will it stop when one wants to be quiet?
O tell me the truth about love.

I looked inside the summer-house;
It wasn’t over there;
I tried the Thames at Maidenhead,
And Brighton’s bracing air.
I don’t know what the blackbird sang,
Or what the tulip said;
But it wasn’t in the chicken-run,
Or underneath the bed.

Can it pull extraordinary faces?
Is it usually sick on a swing?
Does it spend all its time at the races,
or fiddling with pieces of string?
Has it views of its own about money?
Does it think Patriotism enough?
Are its stories vulgar but funny?
O tell me the truth about love.

When it comes, will it come without warning
Just as I’m picking my nose?
Will it knock on my door in the morning,
Or tread in the bus on my toes?
Will it come like a change in the weather?
Will its greeting be courteous or rough?
Will it alter my life altogether?
O tell me the truth about love.


Yes, I’ll Marry You
Pam Ayres

Yes, I’ll marry you, my dear,
And here’s the reason why;
So I can push you out of bed
When the baby starts to cry,
And if we hear a knocking
And it’s creepy and it’s late,
I hand you the torch you see,
And you investigate.

Yes I’ll marry you, my dear,
You may not apprehend it,
But when the tumble-drier goes
It’s you that has to mend it,
You have to face the neighbour
Should our labrador attack him,
And if a drunkard fondles me
It’s you that has to whack him.

Yes, I’ll marry you,
You’re virile and you’re lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
That sexy little dinner
Which you served by candlelight,
As I do chipolatas,
You can cook it every night!

It’s you who has to work the drill
and put up curtain track,
And when I’ve got PMT it’s you who gets the flak,
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!

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Saturday, September 29, 2007

Ruminations on Marriage Part 3

It is important to have time to oneself…to indulge, to reflect, to chill out, to laze, to take stock, to watch and to listen, to dream, to mourn, to make lists, to take action, to breathe deeply, to find the love for life again. And to read!
 

From “The Irrational Season” by Madeleine L’Engle


But ultimately there comes a moment when a decision must be made. Ultimately two people who love each other must ask themselves how much they hope for as their love grows and deepens, and how much risk they are willing to take…It is indeed a fearful gamble…Because it is the nature of love to create, a marriage itself is something which has to be created, so that, together we become a new creature.

To marry is the biggest risk in human relations that a person can take…If we commit ourselves to one person for life this is not, as many people think, a rejection of freedom; rather it demands the courage to move into all the risks of freedom, and the risk of love which is permanent; into that love which is not possession, but participation…It takes a lifetime to learn another person…When love is not possession, but participation, then it is part of that co-creation which is our human calling, and which implies such risk that it is often rejected.

 

Billy Joel - Just The Way You Are lyrics

Don’t go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don’t imagine you’re too familiar
And I don’t see you anymore
I wouldn’t leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I’ll take the bad times
I’ll take you just the way you are

Don’t go trying some new fashion
Don’t change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don’t want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you and that’s forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.

I find that marriage is excellent for me. Even by being un-coperative, I have learnt many valuable life lessons and realised I’ve been rather an all-assuming smart-alecky lil miss know-it-all. Not easy for someone who’s led a charmed life to constantly find her self-righteousness challenged. What I rejected as simple cliches have in fact turned out to be tried-and-tested TRUTHS ABT MARRIED LIFE. Gah. If anyone out there thinks she knows it all, I strongly recommend she gets hitched—it’ll be the biggest lesson of her life (pun unintended) *runs and hugs Babo, who wisely intones that Squish has to be upbeat because life is about learning and growing…and hunting down the elusive choc chip cookie that’s rumoured to be as huge as one’s face, drool*

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Ruminations on Marriage Part Two

I love love love love love my husband.

 

Absolutely no regrets whatsoever.

 

It was the stress talking.

 

I NEED to trust him. 

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